Finding Light in the Darkness

Scripture: “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18 (ESV)

Dear reader: The Christmas season is often portrayed as a time of joy, lights, and celebration, yet for many, it also carries the weight of loss and grief. The empty seat at the table, the silent phone that once carried cheerful calls, and the memories of moments shared can bring a deep ache, magnified by the season’s expectations of happiness.

During this time, the isolation of depression can feel overwhelming. It’s easy to believe you’re alone in your pain. Yet, the story of Christmas reminds us that God’s light shines brightest in the darkness. Jesus, our Emmanuel—God with us—came into a broken world to bring hope and healing. His birth was not amidst royal splendor but in a humble manger, surrounded by simplicity and need. This is the beauty of our Savior: He meets us in our pain, not asking us to rise above it but joining us in it.

As I grieve the loss of a loved one and face the emptiness of shattered dreams, I am reminded that God sees my tears. He understands the depth of my sorrow, and His promise remains: “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). He offers His presence as a balm for my soul, inviting me to bring my burdens to Him. I also witness my wife’s struggle as she works through her own anger and grief. This shared journey of loss reminds me that God’s love and grace are sufficient for both of us in our pain.

There is comfort in knowing that Jesus came to bind up the brokenhearted (Isaiah 61:1). He came for me, for my wife, and for anyone walking through the shadows of grief. Though this season may not feel merry, it can still be meaningful. I will allow myself to grieve while inviting the Lord into my sorrow. I will share my pain with Him in prayer and seek the support of loved ones or a community of believers I am learning to try to trust.

This Christmas, I want to shift my focus from what is missing to what remains—God’s love, His promises, and the hope of eternal reunion. May the flicker of a candle, the lyrics of a carol, or the quiet of a winter’s night remind us all of His nearness.

Until next time

Chaplain Mark