Mercy's Whisper

Dec 03, 2024By Mark O'Reilly
Mark O'Reilly

A few years ago, I encountered an elderly man battling a serious illness. The moment our eyes met, he began to weep. His suffering was palpable, but what struck me most was not his physical pain, but the deep anguish of his soul.

He spoke to me about his life—sixty years lived entirely for himself, with no thought of God. As death approached, he felt overwhelmed by shame. I tried to encourage him, to tell him that it wasn't too late, that God's love could reach even him. But he was resolute in his belief that he was beyond redemption.

I remember sitting beside his bed, feeling a sense of helplessness. How could I convince this man that mercy was still possible? I spoke of grace, of love, but my words seemed to bounce off an invisible wall of his despair. Each conversation felt like pushing against an immovable object.

In my frustration and concern, I began to pray. "God," I remember whispering, "this man cannot see Your love. He is blind to Your grace. I have no words left. Please, find a way to reach him."

After that prayer, something shifted in me. I realized I had been approaching him all wrong. Instead of talking about love or grace—concepts that seemed too vast for him to comprehend—I needed to speak of something simpler, more immediate: mercy.

As we spoke, I changed my approach. "Forget everything else," I told him. "Just say to God, 'I am suffering. I have no way to go on. Have mercy on me.'"

The change was instantaneous. Where before he had been resistant, now he was receptive. Something in those simple words broke through his barriers. He agreed, and in that moment, I saw a spark of faith ignite in his eyes.

I'm still moved when I think about this experience. It taught me that sometimes, our elaborate explanations mean nothing. Sometimes, all we need is the simplest of prayers—a raw, honest plea for mercy.

God's capacity for compassion continues to humble me. In this man's most vulnerable moment, when he had nothing left to offer, mercy found him.

He passed away not long after that, and I was asked to conduct his funeral and visitation. I could only offer words of solace, sharing that he passed away knowing he would be reunited with his beloved wife. His final wish was to see his family again, and in his last moments, he found peace in the hope of that reunion.