Two Cheeks, Higher Ground

Dec 19, 2024By Mark O'Reilly
Mark O'Reilly

Dear reader,

I've been thinking a lot this morning about reactions and how God calls us to respond differently than our instincts want us to. It hit me - so many of us (myself included) struggle with the whole "turn the other cheek" thing. When people are unreasonable, my first thought is usually "This is ridiculous! Why should I have to deal with this?"

But I had this realization today: when I resist these teachings, my real struggle isn't with the difficult people in my life - it's with God Himself. He's the one asking for this different way of living, and there's a profound reason behind it.

I'm starting to understand that the life He's given us is meant to be above normal reactions. It's not just about gritting my teeth and enduring bad treatment. The amazing thing is - this new life actually thrives when facing opposition. The more someone tries to bring it down, the more its true nature shines through.

Today I'm challenging myself to see these situations differently:

When someone demands something unreasonable, I want to go even further
When someone takes from me, I want to give more
When someone hurts me, I want to respond with unexpected kindness
It's weird, but I'm discovering that real peace and joy come when I stop fighting against these hard teachings and start embracing them. This is what being a Christian really means - not just controlling my negative reactions, but living in a way that completely transcends them.

Need to remember this next time someone pushes my buttons...

Until next time 

Chaplain Mark