When the Holidays Hurt

Dear reader

  The Christmas season often brings images of joy, celebration, and togetherness, but for many— yes myself included at times—it can also be a season marked by sadness, grief, or loneliness. It’s easy to feel out of place in a world that seems to demand constant cheer. That’s why I’m so thankful that my church is hosting a Blue Christmas Service this year.

This service offers a space to bring our heartaches and burdens before God. It’s a time to acknowledge the struggles that weigh on us, while finding hope and healing in His presence. It reminds me that even when the holidays feel heavy, God meets us right where we are.

One verse that gives me comfort is Matthew 11:28: "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." In these words, I hear Jesus’ gentle invitation—a reminder that it’s okay to feel tired or broken. He doesn’t ask us to pretend everything is fine; instead, He offers rest for our souls.

I’m also drawn to Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." This verse reminds me that God draws near when we feel most distant or alone. His love doesn’t depend on our circumstances or emotions; it’s steadfast, even in our darkest moments.

As I think about the Blue Christmas Service, I find hope in Isaiah 9:2: "The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned." This season is about Jesus—the Light who shines in our darkness, the hope who never fades.

I pray for those who will attend the service and for anyone feeling the weight of this season. I pray that we will experience God’s peace, even in our pain. And I pray that the Blue Christmas Service will be a reminder of His promise: that the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it (John 1:5).

Though the holidays may look and feel different, I hold onto the truth that Christmas isn’t just about celebrating; it’s about finding hope in the One who came to save us. Even when joy feels distant, His peace and presence are near.